7 Steps to Deleting the Negative

Most of us grow up believing that, the world is a tough place and that, in order for us to deserve anything good, we have to either be blessed/talented or make friends with those who are.

We have, endlessly been told that the rich are either greedy or criminals; that poverty is a natural reality and, that the virtuous are not materially inclined. With these tapes playing around in our subconscious mind, is it any wonder that this world keeps reflecting itself to us in exactly that way?

What is even worse, is that, every time it does, our belief in it grows that much more. We reinforce it with saying things like, "That is just reality"; "that is the way my life has always been" or "that's the way the world works, it favors the talented and the well connected."

With these thoughts constantly playing back into your consciousness and you consistently affirming them, you sure have created, not only, a self-fulfilled prophesy at every turn but, you have also added a huge boulder onto our over-burdened collective consciousness in Mankind.

MIND YOUR MENTALITY!

Catchy title, isn't it?

But frankly, it's no use me having the 'catch', if it does not deliver the "Think" factor!

I'm sure you have become familiar over the years with the Law of Attraction. You may even, have tried its principles in your life. And so, now, you have reason to accept the premise that your thoughts are things and, that they have fashioned your life in most ways.

What most are not aware of is, that the adage of "Know Thyself" is grossly underused. Have you ever been told that you don't know yourself well enough and that this is the reason your life is the way it is? And, what is your response?

What Is Communicating to You?

What does it mean to you, to communicate?

Is it to speak? Is it to convey a message or a point?

Do you find it easy to communicate or are you usually at a loss for words?

Do people find you easy to talk to and do you find that they always understand you immediately?

For many years, I was baffled by the art of communicating. It seemed to me to be something that was not easy to do, because we all have such diverse data bases in our minds about expressing ourselves with each other.

When I was little communication was a chore! There was so much I wanted to share, so much I wanted to gift others but I did not know the right words to make them feel what I was telling them. Thus, I began a love affair with language and expressing it effectively became a chosen goal.

I wanted so badly to be specific and engender the correct message. Sadly, I found myself being misunderstood and misrepresented.

What Will They Decide?

Today I want to show you what people are inclined to DO. I want to show you how you are inclined to act. Behavior. Different than thoughts.

We think we want X but we buy Y.

I want to show you not only what people are thinking but also what they do...
An example. If I say, pick a number from 1-10, you are inclined to say "7."

The majority of people do in the English speaking culture. If I ask you to think of a shape and say it out loud you are inclined to say "triangle."

The majority of people do in the English speaking culture.

But knowing what someone is going to say or think is matched in importance by knowing what people are likely to DO. If you see what people do in given situations you can predict their behavior in future situations.