Is Your Curiosity a Sign of Your Interest?

How curious are you? How well do you communicate that curiosity? Do you ask questions? Or do you prefer to tell people what you know?

It has been my experience that, people who are self-centered have little interest in knowing about others. They wish to learn almost nothing from others.

However, an individual, who has taken great care of their needs, is usually the one who wants to listen to what others have to say. They enjoy getting to know others well. This kind of person has a great deal of self-esteem and, therefore is, a very curious being.

7 Steps to Deleting the Negative

Most of us grow up believing that, the world is a tough place and that, in order for us to deserve anything good, we have to either be blessed/talented or make friends with those who are.

We have, endlessly been told that the rich are either greedy or criminals; that poverty is a natural reality and, that the virtuous are not materially inclined. With these tapes playing around in our subconscious mind, is it any wonder that this world keeps reflecting itself to us in exactly that way?

What is even worse, is that, every time it does, our belief in it grows that much more. We reinforce it with saying things like, "That is just reality"; "that is the way my life has always been" or "that's the way the world works, it favors the talented and the well connected."

With these thoughts constantly playing back into your consciousness and you consistently affirming them, you sure have created, not only, a self-fulfilled prophesy at every turn but, you have also added a huge boulder onto our over-burdened collective consciousness in Mankind.

Where Have The Years Gone

Recently, I celebrated a birthday and the more mature I become, the more I notice the fast pace in which life seems to unfold before us. It's not the idea of where has time gone to but rather where have the years gone by. 


When I look at my life, and believe me, when you write your autobiography as I have, you get pretty clued up on the events of your life that get you to where you now stand. As I began to write 'My Story', I was first faced with, just the sheer remembering of things I thought I had forgotten. Then came the piecing and the sequencing of events. And, that was, even before truly understanding what I had gained from my own unique journey.

But, as time went by and, in the recollecting of the things that made me who I am today, I realized the enormity of choices I had made, in the beginning of my life.

Live Your Feelings

How are your feelings today?

And how well have you integrated your feelings into your life so far?

When you take into account all that you know and that your behavior has reflected into everything that you have ever done, then you are sure to know that your feelings are part of you. They are the life blood of all you are.

• What are you passionate about?
• Do you often feel excitement energy coursing through your veins?
• Have you ever asked yourself these questions?
• And what feelings arose when you did?

MIND YOUR MENTALITY!

Catchy title, isn't it?

But frankly, it's no use me having the 'catch', if it does not deliver the "Think" factor!

I'm sure you have become familiar over the years with the Law of Attraction. You may even, have tried its principles in your life. And so, now, you have reason to accept the premise that your thoughts are things and, that they have fashioned your life in most ways.

What most are not aware of is, that the adage of "Know Thyself" is grossly underused. Have you ever been told that you don't know yourself well enough and that this is the reason your life is the way it is? And, what is your response?

Master Adversity and Hone Your Will

In this game called Life you have to have self-realization because your birth was divine. And Divinity by nature is to be Realized. The greatest marvel in life is that, every day gives us the platform to be born anew with each sunrise, to unmask the illusions of our limitations and to encourage us to overcome our obstacles with the divine power that resides within us all.

To master adversity in health, success, happiness, wealth and Spirit, you have to be of a philosophy of gifting to yourself and to others all that you are and all that you are becoming. To do anything else is to stagnate!

You were born with genius in you and it must be brought to sunlight to enable your insight and to magnetize it. But, the pearls of wisdom can never be created without friction or adversity.

What Did I Learn About Feelings?

Have you ever been told that your feelings are not important?

Were you always silenced when you got emotional about something that upset you and therefore made others feel uneasy around you because of them?

How did you feel about your own feelings growing up? And what about now?

Personally, my feelings always discomforted me. They made me feel much too vulnerable and completely out of control. Not sure about you, but being vulnerable was something that in my family was considered a weakness and they, in their efforts to do the best for me, always could not deal with their own much less mine.

Don't get me wrong, we are all products of our conditioning and therefore, subject to its hold over us. But as we grow older, and hopefully wiser, we can learn to unmask its hold on us and navigate better waters of self in empowering ways. And, naturally, the onus is on us, to make those changes for ourselves in ways that expand our own lives and those of others.

So, this is my journey through my own feelings and an example into a small exercise into self-analysis:

Going With the Flow - Giving Up or Allowing Entry?

What does it mean, to go with the flow?

Well...at base it means to stop struggling for what you want. It means taking guidance. It means allowing yourself to hear your inner voice. It means to listen to your higher self, as some call it and, we are constantly receiving guidance from it although, most people, seem to be oblivious to it.

How often have you been so focused on forcing life to go your way that, you ignore the prompting of your soul?

And, how often have you shelved your gut feelings?

What Is Communicating to You?

What does it mean to you, to communicate?

Is it to speak? Is it to convey a message or a point?

Do you find it easy to communicate or are you usually at a loss for words?

Do people find you easy to talk to and do you find that they always understand you immediately?

For many years, I was baffled by the art of communicating. It seemed to me to be something that was not easy to do, because we all have such diverse data bases in our minds about expressing ourselves with each other.

When I was little communication was a chore! There was so much I wanted to share, so much I wanted to gift others but I did not know the right words to make them feel what I was telling them. Thus, I began a love affair with language and expressing it effectively became a chosen goal.

I wanted so badly to be specific and engender the correct message. Sadly, I found myself being misunderstood and misrepresented.

Saving the World One Mind at a Time

On the day I was born, I think I already had ideas of saving the world.

Funny how life gives us the platform from which to test our boundaries and theories where we should be testing our living instead.

In my teens, I was assaulted by the visuals of war and the intricacies of what the aftermath left in its wake. During those times, I guess, I developed the consciousness of wanting to save the world from its cruelties.

How does one, at the tender age of 11, equalize the horrors of what a war can do from the eyes of a youngster? How does one justify it to kids and to life itself? How does one explain it to wives, mothers what losing them can do to a nation?

How Do You Align Yourself to Your Purpose?

Have you noticed, some people in this beautiful world of ours, seem to have a definitive sense of their own purpose? They gives us that feeling that, they are totally in touch with it. At the very least, they have a very strong sense of it within themselves. It is as if, they naturally move with it with little effort.

So, what is YOUR purpose? Maybe you don't know.

How do you find out? And, once discovered, how do you get in touch with and, in tandem with it?

Influence/Motivate People to Change!

You can know all the techniques, strategies and mental linguistics on the planet...but...if you aren't a person of influence, you haven't got a chance. 
Similarly, you can be a person of influence but your client quite simply might not be motivated to change. (at least not yet!)

Let's look at both of the people in the process and find out what kind of a person a person of influence is...then find out what your client must feel about you to best be motivated by you....