What Is Communicating to You?

What does it mean to you, to communicate?

Is it to speak? Is it to convey a message or a point?

Do you find it easy to communicate or are you usually at a loss for words?

Do people find you easy to talk to and do you find that they always understand you immediately?

For many years, I was baffled by the art of communicating. It seemed to me to be something that was not easy to do, because we all have such diverse data bases in our minds about expressing ourselves with each other.

When I was little communication was a chore! There was so much I wanted to share, so much I wanted to gift others but I did not know the right words to make them feel what I was telling them. Thus, I began a love affair with language and expressing it effectively became a chosen goal.

I wanted so badly to be specific and engender the correct message. Sadly, I found myself being misunderstood and misrepresented.

Saving the World One Mind at a Time

On the day I was born, I think I already had ideas of saving the world.

Funny how life gives us the platform from which to test our boundaries and theories where we should be testing our living instead.

In my teens, I was assaulted by the visuals of war and the intricacies of what the aftermath left in its wake. During those times, I guess, I developed the consciousness of wanting to save the world from its cruelties.

How does one, at the tender age of 11, equalize the horrors of what a war can do from the eyes of a youngster? How does one justify it to kids and to life itself? How does one explain it to wives, mothers what losing them can do to a nation?

How Do You Align Yourself to Your Purpose?

Have you noticed, some people in this beautiful world of ours, seem to have a definitive sense of their own purpose? They gives us that feeling that, they are totally in touch with it. At the very least, they have a very strong sense of it within themselves. It is as if, they naturally move with it with little effort.

So, what is YOUR purpose? Maybe you don't know.

How do you find out? And, once discovered, how do you get in touch with and, in tandem with it?

Influence/Motivate People to Change!

You can know all the techniques, strategies and mental linguistics on the planet...but...if you aren't a person of influence, you haven't got a chance. 
Similarly, you can be a person of influence but your client quite simply might not be motivated to change. (at least not yet!)

Let's look at both of the people in the process and find out what kind of a person a person of influence is...then find out what your client must feel about you to best be motivated by you....

What Will They Decide?

Today I want to show you what people are inclined to DO. I want to show you how you are inclined to act. Behavior. Different than thoughts.

We think we want X but we buy Y.

I want to show you not only what people are thinking but also what they do...
An example. If I say, pick a number from 1-10, you are inclined to say "7."

The majority of people do in the English speaking culture. If I ask you to think of a shape and say it out loud you are inclined to say "triangle."

The majority of people do in the English speaking culture.

But knowing what someone is going to say or think is matched in importance by knowing what people are likely to DO. If you see what people do in given situations you can predict their behavior in future situations.

Be Fully Alive to This Moment by Changing Time

Perceptive awareness is being fully, vividly alert and living fully in this very moment!

It is seeing the trees bend in the wind and the way the birds circle overhead. It is sensing how the trees feel, what problems and joy the birds might be experiencing. It is experiencing the full moment within us and around us and not just our own mesh of thoughts. It is clarifying the mind of future events and clearing past replayed scenes, so that you CAN know, the fullness of this exact moment in time. It is putting yourself in the full holographic imagery now in front of you in, relation to everything happening around you. It is Being fully Consciously alive. With total Perceptive Awareness a moment can appear, to last forever.

NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS

Remember when we were kids...  and every day was an adventure. 

The grass was greener, the sky more blue, and the stars shone brighter.

And our futures went on forever - as far as the eye could see. 

There was no stopping us.  Go ahead, let 'em try! 

We marched at each day break and conquered the world by nightfall. Life was full of endless possibilities...

Can you think back to those times and to your hopes and dreams for the future?

Astronaut, President, Football Hero, Rock Singer, Doctor, Baseball Legend, Famous Artist, Movie Star, Scientist...

How clear the path to each one...

Or maybe you only knew that you were destined for greatness.

But you were sure it was coming... Because that's all it took.

Your unwavering belief in yourself.  Your absolute determination.

The certainty of youth! 

Congratulate yourself if you reached those goals.

GRATITUDE, LOVE & TRUST

As human beings, we operate daily reflecting a wide range of emotions with a multitude of motivations fueling our behaviors. All too often, we react emotionally to what others say or do. If our reactions are preceded by the emotions of fear, anger, or sadness, we forfeit our ability to act with personal power and effectiveness in lieu of a knee-jerk response.

This reaction is all too often sourced in fear and low self-esteem. We may focus on what's wrong with us and our lives or fear being controlled, hurt, or taken advantage of. We may overlook the many things we have in our lives for which we should rightly be grateful. When we doubt our ability to thrive and access the abundance we see all around us in the world, we react instead from the concern of scarcity and the expectation of failure, hurt, and disappointment.

YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR BELIEFS & YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

Why are so many of us allowing our thoughts and beliefs to ruin our health, our relationships, our dreams, etc?

Surely when we understand that we have control over these, we can just change our thoughts and beliefs and hey, presto – all areas of our lives are sorted!

The answer is we can – we certainly have all power to do just that – its just not as straightforward as that.

Have you ever tried to change your mental patterns by sheer will power?

Then you know its not that simple!

EPIGENETICS

YOUR HEALTH AND YOUR LIFE CHOICES

Genes

Orthodox science and medicine have held that genes are in charge of our health.  Thus, they saw health as a matter of luck, reserved for those with ‘good' genes.  This belief system has prevailed for a long time.

However, a revolution in biology – The New Biology – has shown that the cells of your body are effected by your thoughts and beliefs, and this then affects your health and wellbeing on every level.

This evolution in science enables us to transform ourselves from victims to masters of our health and of our own lives.  Regrettably, this has not yet reached healthcare systems or the general populace.  And so, the worlds is filled still with people who believe and live in the fear that their genes are about to turn on them at any moment.

AFFIRMATIONS and VISUALIZATIONS

I cannot emphasize enough the importance and power of doing affirmations and visualizations daily!


Science has discovered that, our brains make neural connections through the synapses. These connections, are made through hormonal flows carried by the neurotransmitters in the brain. Together, they create the mental patterns that you are currently enjoying through your emotional associations.


If, your dominant thoughts are negative, then these connections will be predominantly imprinted with your emotional flow of chemicals carried and, thus flooding your body. They will bring to you equal to what you are thinking.

COMMON THOUGHT IS WHAT CREATES OUR DAILY LIFE (An excerpt from Teachings)

Now does consciousness and energy on the Plane of Bliss work on the earth plane? Absolutely – it does, because what happens at the lake of tranquility?! In contemplation, as we contemplate, as we view, as we remarkably and daringly become the whole self in any situation, we also become that which is every desire. 


It is not simply, a place where we dream of our life, and there we can have the long dreams – very long dreams. That oftentimes is the greatest healer of all, because the dreams can become so impassionate – impassionate in the Plane of Bliss Is to be analogical – that they become so analogical and so impactful that the whole of the Being is there and transformed in the midst of the dream itself, and there they have dreamt dreams.

And you have done the same thing, especially when something tells you you can do that, that by virtue of dreaming it, what happens?